I “Always” Have A Date? And…?

The facts are these: 1.       My recent relationship experiences hasn’t been ideal but, I always have a great date—and he’s most often a very “good catch.” 2.       My “dates” usually are just…dates. Nothing more; nothing less. 3.       Dating for me is a very casual thing. I date because it’s fun. I’m very traditional and non-traditional [...]

God Sometimes Gives You Wisdom in Order to Know What to Ask of Him

“Bonjour.  Je veux un six piece hot wing. Le menu.” (For those non-French speakers: I want a six piece hot wing. The combo.) That is what I said as my girl was speaking up with this African student studying in Nice. We had just come back from Monaco and I had won 53 Euros, which [...]

Grateful

So…. I took a break from everything, including writing. The things I’ve learned during my break stretch far beyond what I can write in a blog; however, there is one thing that is clear as day. Today, my pastor talked about thankfulness, and as I have been reflecting through everything that has occurred in my [...]

The Price Tag—Ultimatums and Whatnot

So in response to a commenter (I have commenter’s people! I’m soooo happy), she basically told me if he does nothing, I do nothing. And that’s exactly what I plan to do plus some extra. If I could label Summer 2010, I’ll label it, “Put a price on it.” And that’s what I’ve decided to [...]

Never Confess Your Undying Love; Just Let It Kill You

(DISCLAIMER: In this post, I seem to be a 14 year old, but it’s so honest and so me, so here world..enjoy…Also, I lose mad cool points for posting this…But as Ayanda would, It’s a Diary…and a blog…isn’t that the point….****also, read this as a stream of consciousness) Whoever said, the truth will set you [...]

Two Models and An American Girl (Europe, Day 3)

So tonight was amazing, early night, yet amazing! It started when my cousin decided to ask me out with some of his friends again, two models and singer/songwriter/etc. To start the nnight off, we were in this China/smokey lounge place and it was great. Drinks, great music, guitar, singer, amazing people…what else would one need! [...]

Poetry–DEFINE

Poetry I wrote for Sexual awareness at a Que event. I hope you enjoy…It’s a little explicit…just for your information. I do NOT define me in you, but I find so much of me in you Where the you in me or simply you in me Is the pinnacle of my sensual spirituality It’s written [...]

3 Things My Daddy Told/Taught Me

1. Don’t be a little punk! Yes, my daddy taught me such things. He said once, “Stop acting like a little punk.” Those words alone have guided me to today. There a very few instances in life where I had not put my foot down, that I did not stand up for what I believed [...]